In my profession, a rule is, “First, do no harm.” And not only is it harmful to use women, but also harmful to yourself to go only for sex rather than quality interaction, and even lasting friendship with women, sex or not.

How about how to ATTRACT women instead. I don’t like the phrases Pickup or Seduction for the reason that they imply trickery, neediness, and manipulation rather than recognizing the mature, confident boundaries of a man and gentleman lead to not only sexual attraction, but quality politics, social opportunity and connection to women in general.

This being said, it IS true that the very first KIND of attraction you will have to master in any lasting connection to a woman romantically will indeed be the sexual attraction. Instead of being a “pickup artist,” why not be an Attraction Master.

Sexual attraction comes first? I thought I just told you that “going only for the sex is bad?”

I did, but the key word is “only,” not to the EXCLUSION of.

Unlike you, women not only thrill on the passion of sex, but instinctively need it to be PAIRED with both a friendship vibe and the promise of at least POTENTIAL commitment.

These take the form sometimes of appreciating a man’s sense of HUMOR, which is a key friendship ability indicator, and that when she senses that you “know how to treat a woman like a lady” – it is not just that you are sophisticated and suave.

It’s that the high character and maturity of behaving in a diplomatic, courteous way implies that you ALSO have the traits which are absolutely necessary to even being capable of someday making a commitment.

A mature, quality woman will not DEMAND instant commitment. She will look for the CAPACITY to have it in you.

Then…

The sexual attraction startup skills. If you thought you wanted to be a “pickup artist,” but soon discover that you want to be an Attraction Master, you will need more than just sexually attractive traits. You will need real humor and the ability to befriend women (for REAL), boundaries, patience, and the character of maturity, and you will need more going on in your life than just a lot of dates and get rich quick schemes as your career plan.

Ultimately, it is MASCULINITY itself which is sexually attractive to women, and in my materials on this, I lay out masculinity as having BOTH the ability to “do the right moves” with women, but also the progress on a career mission that matters to SOCIETY.

Those skills, tactics and moves will need to be flavored with more than just robotic actions. They need friendly emotion, real character, career accomplishment or potential, and respect both for the woman and yourself.

Starting at the start though, there are three things to do when beginning an attraction:

While there are numerous skills, tactics and strategies associated with this very first phase of courtship, the two most crucial that we can blast your skills upward with are threefold:

1. Be MYSTERIOUS – meaning, become a source of curiosity for the woman. She needs to be wondering about what makes you tick, why you know the people you know, why you dress that way, why you know those things, and she needs, for now, to utterly not BE ABLE TO LABEL you.

2. Be a source of laughter, humor, or at least reason to smile – early dating and sexual attraction are all “body related,” meaning they are about body language and action. Yet the woman has a need for any romantic action to be paired with happiness, friendliness, and good emotion. Her emotions are her guide, especially when it comes to the nonverbal about romance. Humor, laughter, and smiles are all automatic ways of expressing fun, happiness, and friendship early, midway, and throughout any relationship, date, or courtship.

2. Do TOUCH her – If you are both mysterious and funny, or a source of happiness and friendship for the woman, it is likely you will have gotten signals from her that she likes you and approves of you. The very next step is to initiate TOUCH. If this DOESN’T happen the biological triggers tell her there is something WRONG with the date, with the attraction, with a potential relationship, and ultimately, with YOU.

Men have a hard time getting over their culturally taught fear of touch. But courteous, respectful, diplomatic touching such as a handshake, a high five, or a brush of the shoulder to make a point or emphasize some humor are great entrees to more intimate, and importantly, ACCEPTED, touching.

After all, you will never get to a kiss without first touching, and you will never get to sex without kissing.

This process must begin with you as a source of curiosity and intrigue, lead to fun and humor, and get to the finish via daring to start intimate touch.

I do not want you to suffer the empty life of a mere “pickup artist.” I want you to have the rich life of an Attraction Master – a mature, sophisticated gentleman with more going on in his life than just chasing tail.

Often times, this means that a woman can easily blow you off, or turn you down, even when you haven’t even begun to really have a conversation, but why? You see, women don’t like the usual approach, it’s boring, and that’s the approach which most men take. But let me show you an approach which will effectively draw attention from women in any conversation…

Those Dead-end Questions - Before we begin with the good kind of conversation, let’s point out the kind of conversation which most women will find extremely plain, boring, and even repulsive. Here are some common questions that men may go for when trying to engage with a woman:

o How many brothers and sisters do you have?
o Where were you born/where are you from?
o What do you do for a living?
o What’s your favorite color?
o What do you do for fun?
o What kinds of things do you like?
o What’s your favorite TV show?
o What’s your favorite drink?
o Etc…

Open Ended Questions- Now, you get my point, and what these kinds of questions are, is they are open ended questions, which means they could literally have any answer or response, and do you really care all that much in that moment? Probably not, and neither will she, because the questions are not engaging enough.

Women love to be emotionally driven, and that is what you need to effectively do when engaging in a conversation with a woman: you need to emotionally drive her so that her interest cannot turn anywhere else but onto you.

The Questions She Can’t Answer-This may seem a little impossible at first, but all you have to do, is literally start the conversation off with a statement, or even a question, to which she will not be able to answer immediately. You want her to think about you, not about herself, and not about how boring of a time she is having.

So how do you accomplish this? Well simply put, you have to ask questions which she cannot immediately answer, and basically you turn the question into a statement. The best way to effectively do this, is to be a little bit overly self assertive, and simply use rhetorical questions and statements.

This leaves her feeling as if she has to figure you out, because you are not allowing her to answer as in a normal approach, and secondly it makes her think more than twice, so much so that she doesn’t even have time to reject you, because you will be onto the next part of the conversation immediately.

Basically the whole point is to challenge her, and make her emotionally drawn into you and your conversation, by creating an atmosphere that leaves her trying to figure out what you are all about.

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Don’t panic. Relax. This is often why guys don’t get lucky with girls. They just become so nerve-wrecked they end up going home beaten. Below are some tips on how to pick up women, and yes, you still have the chance to get lucky tonight.

Plan out your moves. Do not come up with open-ended questions, stuff that can be answered with a yes or no. Instead, look for a good one that’ll make the women talk more and reveal more of them. Go with some friends. It’s good not to go alone, it shows that you’re a very sociable person, and for some reason, you appear less threatening to the ladies. Bring in a few female friends as well, for women might wonder if you’re dating one of them. Observe body language. Is that girl looking at the door every second or glancing on her watch? Wrong girl to pick up, she’s definitely with someone. Try to look for girls who are alone, are relaxed and are dressed more glamorously than the rest. Their mindset is to get picked. Now do your part. Be confident. Nothing beats the poise, cool and confident aura. Every girl are probably how thinking to get near you right this very instant. So be positive. Optimism is contagious.

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After the excruciatingly staged first series of the program where Mystery PUA and two exceptionally strange looking individuals calling themselves Matador and J Dog schooled eight hapless AFCs on how to deliver canned openers to a series of uninterested girls, The Pick Up Artist is back. As I recall the series ended with two suspiciously good looking finalists, the lucky winner of the prestigious title of ‘Master Pick Up Artist’ being Kosmo. With a K.

It’s hard to know how much the contestants will have learned having been schooled by J Dog, whose keeerazy hairstyle resembles the finished product of a primary school art class, a far cry from the ‘rockstar look’ he claims on his website. He’s also English, and speaking from experience it is not difficult for an English person to get laid in America. You don’t need to have tight game, as opening your mouth is usually enough to extract squeals of delight and admiration from American girls.

The next purveyor of Mystery Method craft is Matador, a man for whom the word ‘sleazy’ may well have been invented for. Dressed in his safety net of all black (maybe he hadn’t read Mystery PUA’s thoughts on peacocking), Matador spent most of the last series saying very little whilst standing around looking somewhat glum, similar to a spoilt fat child who’s been last to be picked for a five-a-side kickabout.

Then of course there is Mystery PUA. I couldn’t really tell if he was genuinely supportive of the people he was trying to train, or was simply using the program to boost his now sizable ego. A man who was quite possibly once thoroughly deserving of the title, The Pick Up Artist, was now resting on his laurels of fame and financial security brought to him by The Mystery Method. We saw him do very little in the way of in field demonstration, apart from in the first episode when a girl told him that she loved him, to gasps of amazement from the resident AFCs.

The fact is, the first series taught nothing about pickup, and was just another reality TV show, with any value painstakingly extracted by the powers at be. Is Mystery PUA one of the best pick up artists in the world? At one stage of his life I’m sure he was. Is the Mystery Method still of value? Yes, if taught by the right people.

So what can we expect from the second series? No doubt the contestants will be geekier, and more outrageously socially inadequate, a number of whom will break down in front of the camera at some point, gushing about how Mystery PUA has ‘opened their eyes’ after they’ve just introduced themselves to a girl for the first time in their lives.

Perhaps J Dog will shock us all by showing just how absurd a hairstyle can be for a man approaching middle age. Maybe Matador might actually risk drowning in his own hair gel? Who knows? I would say that I’ve got my sky plus and notebook ready in anticipation of the second series of The Pick Up Artist, but that would be a massive lie.

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1. Direct Approach Nothing says confidence like walking up to a woman and introducing yourself. This can be easily done anywhere, and is really common is bars and nightclubs if you know what you are doing. Women go absolutely nuts over guys with a good sense of self esteem, and that’s what the direct approach is all about. It shows that you’re not scared of a challenge, and that you are ambitious enough to get out there and pick up women that you desire.

2. Don’t Hesitate This tip goes hand in hand with the direct approach. When you see a woman you’d like to meet, give yourself a maximum of 10 seconds or less to go over and speak to her. This tip also works wonders when she is giving you signals to approach her, like looking your way or coming within close proximity of you. The reason that there should be a minimal amount of time between the time that you lay eyes on the woman and when you approach her is so that you don’t psyche yourself out. If you can’t think of something to say, try just introducing yourself and asking an open ended question, one that she can’t give a “yes” or “no” answer to. This will guarantee that you don’t get shot down, at least for a minute or two.

3. Be Social One of the biggest mistakes that I see guys make all the time is that they don’t interact with enough people in the venue. Think about it- when you go out, do you make at least 1 new friend every night? Do you talk to random people that you don’t know? If not, you might want to start, because this is by far the easiest way to learn how to pick up women. Not only will you get more comfortable speaking to people in general, but you’ll also grow your social circle and open yourself up to new opportunities to meet women.

Try to speak to at least 1 new person everywhere you go- just be a friendly guy in general. The worst thing that could happen is that someone doesn’t want to talk to you, which isn’t too bad at all! These 3 tips are by far the most important things that you will be needing when you are trying to pick up women. They may take you a little bit of time to get acquainted with, but when you do get the hang of them, they are absolutely deadly when you are trying to get with girls.