We begin with a letter from a reader…

After reading your book Mack Tactics I decided to finally break up with my (now ex) girlfriend. She’d been totally controlling and manipulating me for the past four years. Anyway, I’m back on the dating scene now and feeling like a true Mack. I met a really hot girl at a work function and asked her out. But I’ll admit I’m rusty with the “first date” stuff, I’ve been off the scene for a long time. Any tips for closing this deal?

Eric, New York City

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In order to pull off the ultimate first date, create deep attraction, and hopefully steer things back to your place, you’re going to have to use the methods and conversation strategies that we explain in the Mack Tactics book. But for starters, here are some fundamental “first date” tips to always remember:

* Keep your spending to a minimum. With first dates, never try to impress her by shelling out the bucks. This puts you in the wrong position. Maintain the attitude that this is her chance to sell herself to YOU, not the other way around. Meet her for coffee (not at a Starbucks — find a cool, out-of-the-way, comfortable coffee shop for dates). Or, meet her for drinks. Skip the places that everyone knows, and find “date locations” that will show her you’re an original type of guy who knows the cool “off the radar” spots.

BONUS TIP: Make her feel extra special by saying to her, “This is one of my favorite places. I think of it as my private sanctuary, I never bring anyone here. But I thought you’d enjoy it so I wanted to show it to you.”

* Have a backup plan. The place you’ve selected could be closed for renovations, her ex-boyfriend might work there, who knows. Have a second location ready to take her to at a moment’s notice. The Alpha Man is a man of action, and always has a complete plan.

* Plan on keeping the date brief. For a first meeting, 1-2 hours is usually perfect. You want an escape hatch in case she doesn’t meet your standards. (Never plan some all-day activity with a girl until you’re certain you want to spend that much time with her.)

Also, unless you’re confident that you can take her home at the end of the night, it’s better to cut things short and create the sense that your time is precious and limited. You should be the one to decide when the date ends. (“Well I’ve got a huge day tomorrow, I need to be up bright and early…we’ll have to do this again soon.”)

Don’t stretch things out so that she’s the one checking her watch and telling you she needs to get home. End the date on a high point, before things start winding down, and plan on sealing the deal the next time you see her. As the greatest entertainers in showbiz know, you’ve always got to “leave ‘em wanting more.”

* Always be punctual. Screw being “fashionably late”: it’s disrespectful and sets a bad tone. Make sure you know the directions to the location, and arrive 10 minutes early so that you’re totally prepared.

* Dress appropriately. It’s always better to be a little overdressed than underdressed. You can  be sure she’s going to dress well for the date. She’ll feel uncomfortable if you roll in wearing a tee-shirt and shorts.

* Let her do most of the talking. Ask questions that prompt her to open up and share with you. Again, maintain the attitude that this is her chance to impress YOU. It’s better to be vague and cultivate a sense of mystery around yourself, than to tell her your life story within the first two hours.

Keep the spotlight on her. The more details she shares with you, and the more you seem to appreciate what she’s saying, the more it feels to her like a connection is building. This elevates you beyond the average guy, who treats every first date as if he’s auditioning for the position of her boyfriend, and feels he needs to “sell himself” by talking himself up.

If you’re ready to take your lifestyle, attitude and dating life to the next level, be sure to check out M.A.C.K. Tactics and The Alpha Rules. You can find these books, and other instructional products, here: How To Get Girls or How To Become An Alpha Male.

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Hi Dean,

I’m a 39-year-old advertising executive and the other day, I met a girl at my gym who is a KNOCKOUT.

She’s 25 years old, Brazilian, and so damn gorgeous that every guy in the gym stopped and stared when she got on the Stairmaster!

(I swear, this girl has an ass that blows away Jennifer Lopez in her PRIME.)

I was lucky enough to be on the Stairmaster next to her, and I used some of the techniques in your kick-ass Mack Tactics program to start a cool conversation with her.

Her English wasn’t so good, but that just got me hornier! Her accent is SO sexy.

I “closed” the conversation by getting her phone number and suggesting that we go to this cool Brazilian restaurant that I know about. Great food and music, I know she will love it…

So, we are set to go out on Friday night…

But Dean, my brother, this is no ordinary first date. This is the girl of my DREAMS!

Anyway, I need some advanced Mack Tacticshere so that I make sure this date is a success.

I don’t want a hug & a handshake at the end of the night. I want to take this girl home and “seal the deal.”

Can you hook me up with a Mack Tactic that is going to help me get laid on the first date?

- Rich, New York City

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Dean Cortez here. I’ve got a move for this first date situation that I developed recently, and it’s KILLER.

Before I got my game in order, I’d estimate that on first dates, I would wind up getting laid around 10% of the time. Maybe that’s a generous estimate. Most of my first dates resulted in a kiss on the cheek, or a hug goodnight. And in a lot of cases, even though the first date SEEMED to go pretty well (at least, it seemed that way to me), the girl wasn’t really interested in seeing me again. Things just fizzled out.

Well, as I started to sharpen my game, I figured out a “first date tactic” that really works wonders. I’ll give it to you now…

The first thing you need to understand is, women have a FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN. This is why it’s so important to project that you are a safe, stable, trustworthy guy.

You can accomplish this by “dropping hints” during the conversation in a strategic way. You already know all about this if you read my Mack Tactics book.

Now in this situation…when your goal is to bring her home at the end of a date…and she’s never been to your place before…it is natural for her to feel some reluctance.

This is because your place — your environment — is UNKNOWN to her.

Her female radar “kicks in,” and her mind comes up with reasons NOT to go there, such as…

- Your place might be dirty and unsanitary. (Women feel very uncomfortable in that type of environment.)

- You might have some weirdo roommate who is going to creep her out.

- You might have a girlfriend or wife that you didn’t tell her about — and she might show up and start some drama!

- You might live REALLY far away. When she has to drive home later, she’s going to have a hard time finding her way back to her place.

Those are just a few of the concerns she might have.

Here is my point: you need to ELIMINATE her concerns, suspicions, and fears and make it EASY for her to think, “sure, going to your place sounds fine.”

So how do you make her think this way?

You SHOW her your place, and let her become familiar with it, BEFORE you take her out on the date!

It’s actually SUPER easy to do…

Here is how you play it. When you call her and set up the date, tell her to MEET YOU outside of your place, so that you can ride in your car together and go to the date spot.

(Bar, restaurant, coffee shop, whatever.)

Women ALWAYS agree to this. Because A), they are curious about where you live. They are nosy! They want to check out the exterior of your home/apartment/condo.

(Notice, you didn’t say “come over and hang out at my place.” You said, “meet me OUTSIDE my place so that we can ride to the restaurant together.”

And B), they feel more comfortable riding in your car with you, especially if the date location is a place they are not familiar with.

You know how women are with driving — they’d really rather not do it…

OK, now here is how to use this Mack Tactic:

When her car pulls up to your place, go outside — like you’re ready to go on the date — and then tell her you forgot to do something. You need to go back inside and send an email or make a phone call:

“Hey! How are you…oh my God, I just remembered, I need to send an email (or make a phone call) before we go. It’s for my work. Come inside for a minute.”

She will agree to this. Naturally, she is curious to see the INTERIOR of where you live.

So, bring her inside …

Pour her a glass of wine (or some water, if she doesn’t drink), and then you go into the other room and pretend to handle your phone call or email.

The idea is this: you are letting her GET FAMILIAR with your place. This will no longer be an “unknown environment” to her.

While you spend 5 or 10 minutes in the other room, you are leaving her alone to CHECK OUT your pad.

And trust me, she WILL check it out. She’ll snoop around a little, look at your pictures, maybe check inside your fridge…she’ll look for any evidence of a girlfriend (or wife) you didn’t mention…

And this means you MUST have a clean place. Your bathroom must be absolutely spotless. I’m talking STERILE — surgery could be performed inside your bathroom! That’s how clean it should be.

Why? Because she will probably want to use it. (Scented candles and very plush bath towels will make the right impression on her.)

So, after 5 or 10 minutes, you finish up your “business” and you come back into the living room and rejoin her. Now the two of you get in your car and go on your date.

That all sounded very simple. But what you just did with her is HUGE on a psychological level.

Because, at the end of the date, when you suggest going back to your place — to have a glass of wine, watch a movie, or whatever other technique you use from the Mack Tactics book program — she ALREADY KNOWS your environment.

She already KNOWS that your home is a comfortable place to go back to, and chill out.

It’s clean, comfortable, and she already knows you’re not some perv who is going to try to jump on top of her the moment she comes in the door.

So you take her out for a nice time, you get her back to your place, and that is when the MAGIC happens…

I used that tactic last week with two different babes — a 23 year old school teacher, and a 27 year old “seduction.com">exotic dancer.” So you see, these methods work across the board…

Use it — and enjoy. If you haven’t seen the smash-hit How To Get Girls program yet, give it a quick look here:

www.MackTactics.com

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez

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by Dean Cortez

Hey, Dean Cortez here with some solid first date advice that will make an AWESOME impression on a woman. Let me start by sharing an email that I received from one of our readers…

* * * * * Hey Dean and Carlos,

I recently decided to finally break up with my (now ex) girlfriend. She’d been controlling and manipulating me for the past four years. Anyway, I’m back on the dating scene now and excited about the possibilities.

I met a REALLY smoking hot girl at my gym and asked her out. But I’ll admit, I’m rusty with the “first date” stuff, I’ve been off the scene for a long time. And I want to make sure this date is perfect — with a girl this hot, I won’t get a second chance if I don’t make the right impression. Do you have any first date advice that will help me close the deal?

- Eric, New York City

* * * * * In order to pull off the ultimate first date, create a deep attraction, and hopefully steer things back to your place, you’re going to have to use the right methods and conversation strategies. These are explained in detail in our book, The Alpha Rules.

But for starters, here is some first date advice to always remember:

* Keep your spending to a minimum. With first dates, never try to impress her by shelling out the bucks. This puts you in the wrong position. Maintain the attitude that this is her chance to sell herself to YOU, not the other way around. Meet her for coffee (not at a Starbucks — find a cool, out-of-the-way, comfortable coffee shop for dates). Or, meet her for drinks. Skip the places that everyone knows, and find “date locations” that will show her you’re an original type of guy who knows the cool “off the radar” spots.

BONUS TIP: Make her feel extra special by saying to her, “This is one of my favorite places. I think of it as my private sanctuary, I never bring anyone here. But I thought you’d enjoy it so I wanted to show it to you.”

* Have a backup plan. The place you’ve selected could be closed for renovations, her ex-boyfriend might work there, who knows. Have a second location ready to take her to at a moment’s notice. The Alpha Man is a man of action, and always has a complete plan.

* Plan on keeping the date brief. For a first meeting, 1-2 hours is usually perfect. You want an escape hatch in case she doesn’t meet your standards. (Never plan some all-day activity with a girl until you’re certain you want to spend that much time with her.)

Also, unless you’re confident that you can take her home at the end of the night, it’s better to cut things short and create the sense that your time is precious and limited. You should be the one to decide when the date ends. (“Well I’ve got a huge day tomorrow, I need to be up bright and early…we’ll have to do this again soon.”) Don’t stretch things out so that she’s the one checking her watch and telling you she needs to get home.

End the date on a high point, before things start winding down, and plan on sealing the deal the next time you see her. As the greatest entertainers in showbiz know, you’ve always got to “leave ‘em wanting more.”

* Always be punctual. Forget about being “fashionably late”: it’s disrespectful and sets a bad tone. Make sure you know the directions to the location, and arrive 10 minutes early so that you’re totally prepared.

* Dress appropriately. It’s always better to be a little overdressed than under dressed. You can be sure she’s going to dress well for the date. She’ll feel uncomfortable if you roll in wearing a tee-shirt and shorts.

* Let her do most of the talking. Ask questions that prompt her to open up and share with you. Again, maintain the attitude that this is her chance to impress YOU. It’s better to be vague and cultivate a sense of mystery around yourself, than to tell her your life story within the first two hours.

Keep the spotlight on her. The more details she shares with you, and the more you seem to appreciate what she’s saying, the more it feels to her like a connection is building. This elevates you beyond the average guy, who treats every first date as if he’s auditioning for the position of her boyfriend, and feels he needs to “sell himself” by talking himself up.

Those are some quick bits of first date advice that will put you on the right track. Mastering the art of “date conversation” is the other big piece of the puzzle — the Alpha Rules book is chock full of techniques and strategies on this.

Why leave ANYTHING to chance? You only get one chance to make the right first impression. Let The Alpha Rules be your guide, and instead of ducking your phone calls in the future, she’ll be eager to see you again.

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez