1. Before you try to start dating Asian women, understand that the term “Asian women” is very broad, and contains a lot of sub-categories. Most Western guys think the “Asian women” label refers to Japanese or Chinese women. The term Asian actually includes over include 40 different nationalities and ethnic groups. There are many variations in the Philippines alone, where there’s been a lot of mixing of different cultures over the centuries. Some filipinas you meet will have a more Spanish look, or a more Japanese or even Chinese look.

If you aren’t certain where she’s from originally, don’t try to guess. This could make you seem ignorant, or even worse, offensive. Instead, you can say to her, “you have a very unique, beautiful look, where are your parents from?”

Also, never mention to her that you’re into dating Asian women, or that you’ve had Asian girlfriends in the past. This is not going to make her feel like you “understand” her. Actually, there’s a good chance that she will feel jealous and resentful. She needs to feel that she is unique and special to you. Also, Asian women who live in Western countries are very sensitive to the idea of “yellow fever” — Western guys who have a fetish for Asian girls. If she gets the sense that you’re only into her because of her race, you’ve got no chance.

2. The stereotype that Asian women are meek and submissive is generally false, however Asian women do want a masculine man, one who can play the role of the provider and protector. This is a big reason why so many men, who are miserable in our “feminized” culture where women want to wear the pants, find the idea of Asian women so attractive. This means that with Asian women, you can’t be codependent or clingy.

Asian men don’t behave this way and if you do, it’s going to make the women uncomfortable. In my Dating Asian Women program I’ll show you ways to make an excellent first impression, capture her interest and make her feel curiousity and attraction, and then play it cool and laidback so that you never give off those nervous, clingy vibes. Instead, you will project confidence and masculinity.

3. Be a gentleman with a bit of a “bad boy” edge. Cool Hollywood movie stars are worshipped in Asia — the guys who are strong, masculine and can take care of business, but have a boyish charm and a softer side. Think about the onscreen personnas of Harrison Ford, Keanu Reeves, Leonardo Dicaprio, Matt Damon, Brad Pitt, and George Clooney. (All of them are revered in Asia.) You must be confident and emotionally stable. Asian women are turned off by insecure, angry or jealous men.

4. You must be intelligent and preferably well-educated, since Asians put a high value on education and wisdom. Also, have various passions and pursuits that you can share with her. You want her to get the sense that she will become a better, more knowledgable and well-rounded person by being with you.

5. Always behave yourself in public. Guys who are loud, rude, or “show off” in public aren’t going to get anywhere with Asian women. They also appreciate proper manners, such as helping them to remove their coat, or pulling out their chair and helping them to sit down in a restaurant.

6. Demonstrate some familiarity with her country, its culture, and her religion. Having an appreciation for her native cuisine is also very helpful. If she is Westernized, she probably eats Western food, generally–but when she’s with her family, they surely still cook their favorite exotic dishes. Learning to cook one of her favorite ethnic meals for her will score you big points.

7. A tip for all you guys who are communicating over the Internet with women from Asian countries: get her to chat with you on a webcam as soon as possible. There are a ton of girls on the Asian dating sites who are looking to find a foreign boyfriend, which is great, but there are a lot of games being played. Some women will post misleading pictures in their profile, or in some cases they’ll use a picture of another person entirely. If she has an excuse why she can’t appear on webcam, you can assume she’s trying to hide something. Every scene I’ve visited in Asia, from the big cities to the poor provinces, now has Internet cafes everywhere — and if the computer she’s using doesn’t have a webcam, there is surely one down the street.

8. Another essential tip for dating Asian women: you cannot come across as a player, a playboy, or a guy who isn’t interested in the possibility of a serious relationship. When you’re getting to know an Asian women, she has to know that you have the capacity to be serious and committed. They’re thinking of their future, and for a lot of Asian women their dream future involves having a half-Caucasian child. You don’t need to talk about your desire to get married on the first date, but you can mention how you’re interested in this someday.

9. Asian women will be impressed if you own some of the latest high tech gadgets — a cool phone, mp3 player, digital camera, and so on. Asian guys tend to be really up on this stuff. And it also helps for you to be literate with computers, because to an educated Asian women, this is a sign that you are a smart, upwardly mobile person.

10. My final tip on getting Asian girls: you must understand that Asian women have very strong ties to their family. In some Asian cultures the woman is expected to support the rest of the family, even though they’re perfectly capable of making their own money. Even though you might be tempted to, never tell her to grow up and be independent and turn her back on her family. This will only drive a wedge between you and her. In my program, How To Date An Asian Woman, I explain how to deal with this issue, so that her family never creates an obstacle.

If you’re interesting in meeting, attracting and dating the beautiful Asian women of your dreams, visit the website Dating Asian Women and watch our free instructional videos. With these lessons, you’ll be an Asian babe magnet before long!

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez

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