Don’t feel bad though. We all have our off days and there’s certainly no harm in learning more tips on talking to girls.  If you want to broaden your knowledge on the art of conversing with the female species, then this is the article for you!

Tips On Talking To Girls # 1: Ditch the Manly Conversations.

It all begins with what you say. Women enjoy meaningful conversations with men. To engage in such, you have to talk about something both of you can relate to. 

While the latest football game might be a constant subject of interest among your best male buds, this just won’t do when talking to girls. Don’t try to use sports as a way to show off how manly your thoughts are either.

Tips On Talking To Girls # 2: Find a Common Ground.

Start with your immediate surroundings. “Isn’t the music awesome?” or “Their grilled salmon is really delicious.” From there, you can actually have a decent conversation about music and food in general, which can then lead to you treating her to this quaint steak house around the corner.

Tips On Talking To Girls # 3: Be Casual Yet Polite.

When talking to girls, there’s no need for formalities. Be casual, but don’t forget your manners either. Remain a gentleman with your thoughts, words and actions. Girls find this combination effortlessly charming and attractive.

Now that you know these tips on talking to girls, you no longer have to deal with awkward situations and silent moments. Tone down your usual arrogance, engage them in conversations which they can relate to, and stay polite yet informal when you talk. The combination of these three simple tips will definitely score you plus points!

When talking to a girl, remember that a conversation also involves listening.  Make sure you are honestly listening and not just thinking about the next topic.Picking up on the hints of what a woman talks about is going to help keep her interested in the conversation.  A girl can tell if you are listening to her or not and it is a big turn off if she gets the vibe that you aren’t truly listening to what she has to say.  Make sure you seem interested in what she has to say and the best way to do that is to give great eye contact and to have a nice relevant comment after she speaks! Being interested allows her to speak more which in turn allows you to speak less.  The less you talk, the more mysterious you are to her  Girls for some reason are interested in men they don’t know much about, guys that have a mysterious appeal to them.  Don’t reveal too much of yourself and be read like an open book.Let the girl take the conversation where she wants to take it. Be a good listener but at the same time don’t be like she’s talking to a tree.  

One thing to remember is that you don’t have to have the most enthralling topic to talk about in order to approach a girl.  Use the surroundings around you to pick a topic.  If you are the library, talk about what book you were inspired to read and how you got inspired to read that book.  That right there is an interesting enough topic to talk about.  You don’t have to be the most interesting man in the world, just someone who is willingly going to listen to what she has to say and have comments to respond back.  You don’t have to start the conversation with a bang, any relevant topic is going to work well. 

When knowing how to talk to girls, things are just going to come naturally. That is something to remember, especially if you are still nervous about how to talk to girls.  Yes, you can plan what you are going to say and such but don’t plan everything right to the T.  Make sure the conversation flows in the direction it is flowing and do not try to stay on a plan just because you feel more in control that way.Letting the conversation flow is letting good things to happen. 

Lastly, if the conversation is going well, end it right there.  You want to end things on a great note.This leaves her wanting more as well as keeping your identity more mysterious.  We mentioned the mysterious point earlier in this article and this last tip is going to seal the deal with that.  Leaving a great conversation with a girl on a high note is the best thing as it leaves a lasting impression.  It lets her know that you have your own life to live and that you have other things going on in your life.  At this point you may want to ask for an email address so you can maybe continue this interesting conversation later on when you are not so busy with other things.  Of course these are only a few tips you should keep in mind when knowing how to talk to girls, there are much more in depth tips and techniques you can dive into. Nonetheless, with these dating advice tips in mind you are well on your way to learning how to talk to girls successfully.

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Asian men across lately have started realizing that they need to unlearn their bad habits and learn some new social skills. Is it weird or creepy? Some people, actually most people, think so. I think it’s such a much needed skill set that most men are missing today. Men with too much pride can’t face the facts that they need help. It took me a few years to face reality, and I’ll admit that.

Asian men, listen up. Your biggest enemy in the dating world isn’t mean women, good-looking men, racism, or cultural differences. Your biggest enemy is your very own head feeding you negative thoughts. Yup, that’s it.

And that is the secret. And that’s what separates the men from the boys.

Some of you do actually do know this, but you’re stuck with fear. Some of you actually think that this is a bunch of crap.

It doesn’t really matter, because the key to opening your eyes is actually SEEING AND LEARNING for yourself how these few Asian men do it.

So how can you, as a dateless Asian man, get started?

1. Accept that you NEED change: Deep down inside you know this is the case but you’re stuck making any moves in bettering yourself.

2. Find mentors: Asian men who have been in your shoes and are willing to teach you. These guys are probably going to be some of the most influential people in your lives.

3. Put in the work: You’ve been wired (brainwashed) to think the way you think at this present time. Unlearning your bad habits takes work and commitment. I don’t care if you’ve got school, work or can’t afford anything. Invest in yourself now.

4. Find your mission in life: This might sound a little lame, but knowing exactly what you want in life and going after it with passion will make you an attractive man. Experience new adventures, travel, run a marathon, start a business, and meet new people. If not, you will be stuck with just being “content” with what you have.

“Can you give me some pick-up pointers right now?”

Sure, and I’ll keep it simple. Just ask any woman you come across how her day was. Yea, that’s it. But I bet you there are a lot of you who can’t even do that! And that’s the problem. It doesn’t matter if you have a PhD, can bench 200 lbs, or drive a Ferrari, if you’re afraid to flirt with women. It’s like a crippling disease that’s eating at your soul.

Suck it up, brother…or you’re going to run into this article again in a couple of years and be in the same situation.

In my profession, a rule is, “First, do no harm.” And not only is it harmful to use women, but also harmful to yourself to go only for sex rather than quality interaction, and even lasting friendship with women, sex or not.

How about how to ATTRACT women instead. I don’t like the phrases Pickup or Seduction for the reason that they imply trickery, neediness, and manipulation rather than recognizing the mature, confident boundaries of a man and gentleman lead to not only sexual attraction, but quality politics, social opportunity and connection to women in general.

This being said, it IS true that the very first KIND of attraction you will have to master in any lasting connection to a woman romantically will indeed be the sexual attraction. Instead of being a “pickup artist,” why not be an Attraction Master.

Sexual attraction comes first? I thought I just told you that “going only for the sex is bad?”

I did, but the key word is “only,” not to the EXCLUSION of.

Unlike you, women not only thrill on the passion of sex, but instinctively need it to be PAIRED with both a friendship vibe and the promise of at least POTENTIAL commitment.

These take the form sometimes of appreciating a man’s sense of HUMOR, which is a key friendship ability indicator, and that when she senses that you “know how to treat a woman like a lady” – it is not just that you are sophisticated and suave.

It’s that the high character and maturity of behaving in a diplomatic, courteous way implies that you ALSO have the traits which are absolutely necessary to even being capable of someday making a commitment.

A mature, quality woman will not DEMAND instant commitment. She will look for the CAPACITY to have it in you.

Then…

The sexual attraction startup skills. If you thought you wanted to be a “pickup artist,” but soon discover that you want to be an Attraction Master, you will need more than just sexually attractive traits. You will need real humor and the ability to befriend women (for REAL), boundaries, patience, and the character of maturity, and you will need more going on in your life than just a lot of dates and get rich quick schemes as your career plan.

Ultimately, it is MASCULINITY itself which is sexually attractive to women, and in my materials on this, I lay out masculinity as having BOTH the ability to “do the right moves” with women, but also the progress on a career mission that matters to SOCIETY.

Those skills, tactics and moves will need to be flavored with more than just robotic actions. They need friendly emotion, real character, career accomplishment or potential, and respect both for the woman and yourself.

Starting at the start though, there are three things to do when beginning an attraction:

While there are numerous skills, tactics and strategies associated with this very first phase of courtship, the two most crucial that we can blast your skills upward with are threefold:

1. Be MYSTERIOUS – meaning, become a source of curiosity for the woman. She needs to be wondering about what makes you tick, why you know the people you know, why you dress that way, why you know those things, and she needs, for now, to utterly not BE ABLE TO LABEL you.

2. Be a source of laughter, humor, or at least reason to smile – early dating and sexual attraction are all “body related,” meaning they are about body language and action. Yet the woman has a need for any romantic action to be paired with happiness, friendliness, and good emotion. Her emotions are her guide, especially when it comes to the nonverbal about romance. Humor, laughter, and smiles are all automatic ways of expressing fun, happiness, and friendship early, midway, and throughout any relationship, date, or courtship.

2. Do TOUCH her – If you are both mysterious and funny, or a source of happiness and friendship for the woman, it is likely you will have gotten signals from her that she likes you and approves of you. The very next step is to initiate TOUCH. If this DOESN’T happen the biological triggers tell her there is something WRONG with the date, with the attraction, with a potential relationship, and ultimately, with YOU.

Men have a hard time getting over their culturally taught fear of touch. But courteous, respectful, diplomatic touching such as a handshake, a high five, or a brush of the shoulder to make a point or emphasize some humor are great entrees to more intimate, and importantly, ACCEPTED, touching.

After all, you will never get to a kiss without first touching, and you will never get to sex without kissing.

This process must begin with you as a source of curiosity and intrigue, lead to fun and humor, and get to the finish via daring to start intimate touch.

I do not want you to suffer the empty life of a mere “pickup artist.” I want you to have the rich life of an Attraction Master – a mature, sophisticated gentleman with more going on in his life than just chasing tail.

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