How To Call A Girl – After You Get Her Phone Number, What Next?

by Dean Cortez

I was chatting on the phone today with my buddy Nick Savoy, the president and CEO of Love Systems — one of the few companies in the “seduction coaching” business that we respect here at Mack Tactics, where we’ve taught thousands of guys worldwide how to get girls on a new level.

I’ve known Savoy for years — he gave an amazing interview for my program on dating younger women. I also give him props for appearing on The Tyra Banks show, and Dr. Phil, and going toe-to-toe with these TV heavyweights to explain and defend why programs like ours help men to succeed with women.

Hey, women are practically trained since BIRTH in how to attract and land “Mr. Right” — why shouldn’t guys have their own resources and tools to learn how to get girls, right?

Anyway, Savoy was filling me in on a killer new book they recently put out at Love Systems, Routines Manual Volume 2, which I’ll be telling you more about soon.

We rapped about a bunch of topics, and one in particular that we had a good time with was Phone Game: the approach that men should take when they call a girl for the first time, to try to line up a date.

The truth is, most guys don’t have a clue about how to call a girl for the first time.

Instead, they place a ridiculous amount of importance on WHEN they should call her!

“Umm, well, I can’t call her TOO SOON…she might think I’m desperate!”

“But I should probably call her within the next three days, right? Otherwise she might forget who I am…”

“I should call her right now, but what if she’s busy…naw, I should probably wait until tomorrow, yeah?”

It reminds me of a scene in “The 40 Year Old Virgin.” Steve Carrell’s character (the virgin) miraculously manages to get a woman’s phone number, and his male co-workers are all throwing him (very bad) advice about how to proceed.

“Well, how long should I wait until I call her?” Carrell asks nervously.

“When’s the next Olympics?” replies one of his pals (played by Seth Rogen).

The funny thing is, guys spend so much energy worrying about when they should call the girl. But rarely do they stop to think what they should say when they do call her!

I watch a LOT of movies, so this conversation then reminded me of a scene in another kick-ass movie: “Swingers.” Remember that horribly awkward, cringe-inducing scene where John Favreau’s character (Mike) gets a girl’s phone number and tries calling her?

The answering machine picks up, and he tries to leave a message…

“Uh, hey, what’s up, this is Mike, we met earlier…anyway, I just wanted to say it was good to meet you, and I thinking maybe sometime we could…”

And then, BEEEEEP…the answering machine cuts him off.

So he calls back and tries again. Sounding even more awkward this time. The machine cuts him off AGAIN.

So he keeps trying, leaving these embarassing, long-winded messages, and getting cut off, until finally the girl on the other end PICKS UP THE PHONE.

She’s been listening to this horror-show whole time. She tells him, “don’t ever call me again” and hangs up.

Mike’s already-shaky confidence is now completely obliterated!

Savoy and I agreed on this: it’s not about whether you should wait 24 hours, or 48, or until the next friggin’ Olympics (which, by the way, is highly unadvisable). It’s about two things:

1. Having a gameplan in mind when you call her. The purpose of this call is not to chit-chat and talk to her about how her day went, nor is this your opportunity to hang on the phone for two hours and exchange your biographies and your hopes, dreams and troubled childhoods. It is to propose a time and a place for you to see her again, and make it happen.

2. It’s about selling her on this idea. You want to sound enthusiastic. (Not like a hyperactive spaz, but you’re in a positive, upbeat mood and you want to invite her to do something really fun and cool — and you give her the specific details of when and where it’s going to happen. In other words: you’ve already got an awesome plan in motion and this is something she won’t want to pass up.)

When I’m out at a bar or club and I get a girl’s phone number, and I need to leave (or she needs to leave), I’ll text her 30 minutes later and reference a joke we shared earlier — something that immediately lets her know who I am.

Maybe something I teased her about. (Using “teasing” tactics is very effective when you’re flirting with girls, as I explain in the Mack Tactics book.)

Or, maybe I gave her a funny “nickname” while we flirting. This is another great way to create a “hook” that makes her remember you when you text her and refer to her by her nickname.

I’ll send her a short text, reminding her of something funny, and then I’ll finish with ”text me when u get home, just want to make sure u get home safe.”

Women love this. You’re showing that you’re a protective guy who looks out for her. 9 times out of 10, I get a text later that night from her — letting me know she got home safe. Then I can reply, “Sleep tight. Call u tomorrow.”

At this point, I am going to wait 48 hours to call her, just so I can seem “cool” or “non-desperate?”

Hell no! I told her I’m going to call her tomorrow, right? So that’s what I do. And then I take it to the next stage with her.

You can also use this Tactic when you GET her number.

As you program her name and number into your phone, tell her, “what’s a good time to call you tomorrow?”

She’ll tell you! Problem solved. She told you a good time (when she won’t be working, or sleeping, or otherwise occupied), and so you call her then.

I’ll write more soon about the new, highly anticipated book Routines Manual Volume Two by Love Systems, which contains a ton of additional (and very clever) tips on Phone Game strategy.

The cool thing about Routines Manual Volume Two is that it includes conversation tips and techniques for virtually any situation you find yourself in with women.

And, you’re getting the best “secrets” from a variety of Love Systems instructors who come from around the world, and have each developed their own super-effective methods for picking up and attracting women.

Give it a look by clicking here, and I’ll see you back here at the blog soon — and if you want to take advantage of an incredible limited-time offer and try out the WHOLE Mack Tactics system (the books, videos, bonuses, everything!) for less than ten bucks, click here:

Your Wingman,

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