How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone: Turning Her From Friend To Girlfriend

The picture above says it all, doesn’t it?

So funny…but also so painfully true for a lot of guys!

Thankfully, the explosive best-seller Mack Tactics has shown thousands of guys around the world how to stay OUT of the friend zone and enjoy lots of great sex with amazing women.

But for guys who don’t know Mack Tactics, it’s a familiar story. He’s a “nice guy” who winds up stuck in the friend zone with a girl and playing the role of her “best guy friend”…while secretly praying that he gets the chance to turn her from friend to girlfriend (or at least fuck her one time!!)

But this almost never happens. When you’re deep in the friend zone with a chick, she will find it totally creepy and “gross” if you try to make a move on her — or if you declare your “true feelings”  in a moment of misguided courage.

There are two reasons why a girl is NOT going to have sex with a guy who’s been in the friend zone with her for a long time:

1. She feels absolutely no sexual attraction towards him. She actually feels the opposite of sexual attraction. Why? Because he’s completely non-sexual, predictable, and always available to her. It’s obvious that this guy is not getting sex from any women, which makes her think “he’s a sweet guy…but he’s also a huge loser.”

When a woman has a “guy best friend,” and she knows the guy isn’t getting laid and has a lame social life (other than hanging out with her), she has zero respect for him. She might enjoy sharing her problems with him, but she is completely turned off by him in a sexual sense.

Nine times out of ten, this pathetic friend zone relationship eventually falls apart because she MOVES ON. She winds up hooking up with a “bad boy” who is confident, independent, and exudes MASCULINE energy.

Then, the friend zone guy bitches and moans, “what’s she doing with that asshole? He’s all wrong for her! I’d be the right boyfriend for her!”

But it’s too late. As a woman, she has needs. And the friend zone guy is never going to fulfill those needs.

I get emails all the time from friend zone guys who want to know how turn a female friend into a girlfriend. I want to take this opportunity to lay out the rules on this.

If you are currently in the friend zone with a girl, here are the three realities you need to face:

1. The ONLY way to turn her into a girlfriend is for you to start spending less time with her and SHOW her that you are desirable to other women. You need to make her feel jealous and think she’s missing out on a good thing.

You will NEVER turn her into a girlfriend by “confessing” to her how much you like her. This will be a totally awkward and humiliating situation that will cause her to run in the other direction. Do NOT confess your “true feelings.”

2. Accept the fact that you might NEVER turn her into a girlfriend, because you have played this all wrong from the beginning. When you study the Mack Tactics book and you realize that you have endless options for women and sex, you won’t get “hung up” on a particular girl the way you have in the past. You may need to write off this girl you’re in the friend zone with as a lesson learned.

3. Vow to yourself that you will never make this friend zone mistake again. From now on, as you use Mack Tactics to meet all kinds of new women, you’re going to keep things moving forward with girls — flirting, having fun, having sex with them (yes this is important!), and not wasting your precious time.

For now, here is my #1 tip (I’ve got many tips on this) for completely avoiding the friend zone and making her sexually interested in you from the beginning…

Show her you don’t need her. Never make a woman feel like your world revolves around her.Yeah, I know women SAY they want a guy who is always paying attention to them, buying them shit, etc. But it’s not true. Women quickly grow bored of a guy who doesn’t present any sort of challenge and doesn’t have any other girls interested in him. Actually, when a guy seems like a bit of a “player,” that’s when women start really paying attention to him and getting curious and attracted.

So, have hobbies and other stuff going on. With the girl who is your #1 target, flake out on her once in a while and break your plans to see her by telling her “something came up.” (Don’t explain.) Then make it up to her in the near future, by taking her out somewhere cool and showing her an awesome time.

When a guy is into a girl, and trying to turn her from friend to girlfriend, he will commonly make the mistake of impressing upon her that he is completely single and available. (If he is hanging out with other chicks, he will never admit this.)

And when the girl gets this impression from a guy, he might as well be hanging a sign around his neck: “I’M LONELY AND DESPERATE FOR SEX, SO I’M GOING TO TRY TO CONVINCE YOU THAT I’M WORTHY.”

Give a woman these signals, and she’ll never look at you with sexual interest. Sure, she’ll be your friend and let you buy her drinks and meals, but she’ll freak out if you make a move on her.

Instead, when she calls you to see what you’re doing, drop a line like this:

“I’m going out with some  friends tonight, my friend Tina is having a birthday party…let me give you a call tomorrow, maybe we can hook up on Sunday and get a bite to eat.”

After she hangs up the phone with you, I guarantee you she’s going to think, “Hmm, so who’s this girl ‘Tina?’ Is she hotter than I am? Can I compete with Tina and all the other girls this guy hangs out with?”

Also, when you’re with her, notice other attractive girls. Don’t try to hide it. Say, “that girl looks hot in that outfit. What do you think, would you wear something like that?”

Your girl might get a little miffed, but this is a good thing! You’re letting her know that you’re a MAN with an eye for attractive women. Then you can say to her, “don’t get your panties in a twist. You know you’re totally hot.”

This is a cool tactic because you’re showing her that you’re sexually attracted to her, but in a detached way. You’re sending mixed signals: you think she’s hot, but you’re not in any hurry to get with her because there are lots of different hot women.

When you do this, the girl will often try to make YOU jealous by commenting on some good-looking guy. Don’t take her bait. Be cool and confident. Agree with her: “Yeah, I can see why girls would dig that guy. So what is it, exactly, that you find attractive about him?”

This will surely lead to an interesting conversation…and by playing it cool, you’re showing total Alpha Male confidence.

In my next article about The Friend Zone I’ll cover some more of the nitty-gritty details of making women feel massive sexual attraction so that they NEVER think of you as “just a friend.”

They’re going to want more from you…a LOT more ;)

Before I sign off, I need to emphasize that AVOIDING the friend zone should begin with your very first interaction with her. Your very first approach and conversation should communicate your confidence, charm and flirty vibe.

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