Getting Her Back To Your Place – First Date Tips

Hey, Dean Cortez here, creator of Mack Tactics – the #1 book for guys who want to attract more women. This reader had a question about how to GUARANTEE that you’ll hook up with a girl at the end of the first date. I decided to reveal a very simple but EXTREMELY effective strategy that I use all the time on first dates to get laid…

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Hi Dean,

I’m a 39-year-old advertising executive and the other day, I met a girl at my gym who is a KNOCKOUT.

She’s 25 years old, Brazilian, and so damn gorgeous that every guy in the gym stopped and stared when she got on the Stairmaster!

(I swear, this girl has an ass that blows away Jennifer Lopez in her PRIME.)

I was lucky enough to be on the Stairmaster next to her, and I used some of the techniques in your kick-ass Mack Tactics program to start a cool conversation with her.

Her English wasn’t so good, but that just got me hornier! Her accent is SO sexy.

I “closed” the conversation by getting her phone number and suggesting that we go to this cool Brazilian restaurant that I know about. Great food and music, I know she will love it…

So, we are set to go out on Friday night…

But Dean, my brother, this is no ordinary first date. This is the girl of my DREAMS!

Anyway, I need some advanced Mack Tacticshere so that I make sure this date is a success.

I don’t want a hug & a handshake at the end of the night. I want to take this girl home and “seal the deal.”

Can you hook me up with a Mack Tactic that is going to help me get laid on the first date?

- Rich, New York City

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Dean Cortez here. I’ve got a move for this first date situation that I developed recently, and it’s KILLER.

Before I got my game in order, I’d estimate that on first dates, I would wind up getting laid around 10% of the time. Maybe that’s a generous estimate. Most of my first dates resulted in a kiss on the cheek, or a hug goodnight. And in a lot of cases, even though the first date SEEMED to go pretty well (at least, it seemed that way to me), the girl wasn’t really interested in seeing me again. Things just fizzled out.

Well, as I started to sharpen my game, I figured out a “first date tactic” that really works wonders. I’ll give it to you now…

The first thing you need to understand is, women have a FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN. This is why it’s so important to project that you are a safe, stable, trustworthy guy.

You can accomplish this by “dropping hints” during the conversation in a strategic way. You already know all about this if you read my Mack Tactics book.

Now in this situation…when your goal is to bring her home at the end of a date…and she’s never been to your place before…it is natural for her to feel some reluctance.

This is because your place — your environment — is UNKNOWN to her.

Her female radar “kicks in,” and her mind comes up with reasons NOT to go there, such as…

- Your place might be dirty and unsanitary. (Women feel very uncomfortable in that type of environment.)

- You might have some weirdo roommate who is going to creep her out.

- You might have a girlfriend or wife that you didn’t tell her about — and she might show up and start some drama!

- You might live REALLY far away. When she has to drive home later, she’s going to have a hard time finding her way back to her place.

Those are just a few of the concerns she might have.

Here is my point: you need to ELIMINATE her concerns, suspicions, and fears and make it EASY for her to think, “sure, going to your place sounds fine.”

So how do you make her think this way?

You SHOW her your place, and let her become familiar with it, BEFORE you take her out on the date!

It’s actually SUPER easy to do…

Here is how you play it. When you call her and set up the date, tell her to MEET YOU outside of your place, so that you can ride in your car together and go to the date spot.

(Bar, restaurant, coffee shop, whatever.)

Women ALWAYS agree to this. Because A), they are curious about where you live. They are nosy! They want to check out the exterior of your home/apartment/condo.

(Notice, you didn’t say “come over and hang out at my place.” You said, “meet me OUTSIDE my place so that we can ride to the restaurant together.”

And B), they feel more comfortable riding in your car with you, especially if the date location is a place they are not familiar with.

You know how women are with driving — they’d really rather not do it…

OK, now here is how to use this Mack Tactic:

When her car pulls up to your place, go outside — like you’re ready to go on the date — and then tell her you forgot to do something. You need to go back inside and send an email or make a phone call:

“Hey! How are you…oh my God, I just remembered, I need to send an email (or make a phone call) before we go. It’s for my work. Come inside for a minute.”

She will agree to this. Naturally, she is curious to see the INTERIOR of where you live.

So, bring her inside …

Pour her a glass of wine (or some water, if she doesn’t drink), and then you go into the other room and pretend to handle your phone call or email.

The idea is this: you are letting her GET FAMILIAR with your place. This will no longer be an “unknown environment” to her.

While you spend 5 or 10 minutes in the other room, you are leaving her alone to CHECK OUT your pad.

And trust me, she WILL check it out. She’ll snoop around a little, look at your pictures, maybe check inside your fridge…she’ll look for any evidence of a girlfriend (or wife) you didn’t mention…

And this means you MUST have a clean place. Your bathroom must be absolutely spotless. I’m talking STERILE — surgery could be performed inside your bathroom! That’s how clean it should be.

Why? Because she will probably want to use it. (Scented candles and very plush bath towels will make the right impression on her.)

So, after 5 or 10 minutes, you finish up your “business” and you come back into the living room and rejoin her. Now the two of you get in your car and go on your date.

That all sounded very simple. But what you just did with her is HUGE on a psychological level.

Because, at the end of the date, when you suggest going back to your place — to have a glass of wine, watch a movie, or whatever other technique you use from the Mack Tactics book program — she ALREADY KNOWS your environment.

She already KNOWS that your home is a comfortable place to go back to, and chill out.

It’s clean, comfortable, and she already knows you’re not some perv who is going to try to jump on top of her the moment she comes in the door.

So you take her out for a nice time, you get her back to your place, and that is when the MAGIC happens…

I used that tactic last week with two different babes — a 23 year old school teacher, and a 27 year old “exotic dancer.” So you see, these methods work across the board…

Use it — and enjoy. If you haven’t seen the smash-hit How To Get Girls program yet, give it a quick look here:

www.MackTactics.com

Your Wingman,

Dean Cortez