Flirting is a way of showing the other that you is very capable and available for a relationship.
In this manner, you should also know the difference between flirting to welcome a relationship and flirting to welcome hot sex.
The two goes too far from the other. To tell you frankly, the signs of these two aforementioned intentions are quite identical in many aspects. This further causes bewilderment and doubt towards the other.
Allow me to discuss further about flirting. More elaborately, it can be done through body gestures and can also become obvious inside a conversation. You might ask why I said that.
To be honest, I had been dealing with girls in some point in my life even in my younger years. This is not to claim that I am attractive to all beautiful women I’ve met sometime in my life.
However, I dealt with rejection in those times as well. Therefore, I can barely say that I gained enough experiences with girls in all sorts for me to claim that flirting helps in indulging girls’ attention for a successful or date or something beyond that.
It is plain to see that most girls today are very much open for getting to know lots of guys even though they are already in a relationship. Anyway, love is never of equal weight with attraction.
How To Pick Up Girls
At this point, let’s not throw away the thoughts about love. Let’s get into attraction and flirting as two known aspects in thinking ways as to how to pick up girls in class.
Flirting can be everywhere. Both men and women can flirt anytime, anywhere, and in any circumstances. Specifically, a woman who tries to catch your attention is flirting with you.
It can never be denied that we, men, are vulnerable to the call of desire. Provided with the fact that our instinct is strong enough to resist, we are prone to see ourselves waking up one morning with a woman we don’t even know the name.
But talking about instinct, women also have this irresistible feeling that is termed as attraction switches. These switches are attached to their DNA. The moment that these switches are flipped by something unusual in a guy, attraction happens.
They flirt. We flirt. We go identical with each other.
More elaborately, flirting is fun and challenging. In fact, you don’t need to have a bachelor’s degree in psychology in order to understand these gestures or manifestations from the other beautiful members of the society.
Prolonged eye contact, arched eyebrows, winking, stroking hair, thrusting chest or breasts outward, leaning inward, crossing legs and licking lips are just few of the body gestures of a flirting woman.
Moreover, any form of touching is considered to be an act of seeking attention as well.
Once you see any of these gestures from any girl you met- whether it could be in disco pads or even in Starbucks while you are enjoying a cup of coffee, you are called to act in a manner that the other is expecting.
This is the most powerful gesture of bringing the girl into a long and a conversation full of fun. The moment that you talk to her in the eye, confidence is being indirectly showed as well.
This is a very important factor in a conversation especially with a stranger who is oozing with sex appeal.
As a man, never show her that you are a bit intimidated with the way she looks. Yes, she is totally a goddess of beauty. Yes, she’s sexy. But, you are attractive as well to catch and bring her attention on.
Maintain a sense of sexiness, humor and high social class. Never show any trace of insecurity (if you can’t really help feeling that way).
As you go along with a great conversation, never spoil your chance by making the talk longer.
It is just a waste of time. Attempt to hold her. Read her gestures- not her words.
From then on, try to inflict more romance by kissing her. But let me tell you folks that this is a crucial thing to do. You need to be very sensitive. Never be very aggressive. Do it smoothly and with respect without going beyond the border separating acts of taking advantage and being caressingly romantic.