How To Be An Alpha Male – Confidence Tips

I’m sure you are familar with the term “Alpha Male.” We often associate this phrase with species of animals — and the most dominant lion or monkey that rules over the rest and is granted access to the finest females.

But a lot of guys associate the term Alpha Male with negative feelings. To them it could mean the football captain who used to swagger around their campus, intimidating the weaker kids and snatching all the sexy girls. Or perhaps you work with an Alpha Male: a “man’s man” who radiates confident, masculine energy, and always gets what he’s after. Even though he might be difficult to work for, you have to respect him.

Either way, most guys suffer under the belief that some of us are born as Alpha Males, and the rest of us are destined to be “shy guys” or “nice guys” who can only have the leftovers and don’t even know how to get a girls phone number. The reality, though, is that we all have an Alpha Male within us. Right now I want to share with you a few pointers on how to “unleash” your Alpha side and use it to attract more girls. I learned these lessons myself, and have applied them with great success…

Become An Alpha Male

How To Be An Alpha Male, Tip #1: Unleashing your Alpha side means that you demonstrate confidence and charisma when you are hanging out with girls OR guys. You need to make this a habit — always be increasing your social network.

Look, I’ve seen lots of guys who study “pickup” because they want to learn how to be an Alpha Male. A percentage of these wanna-be pickup artists get pretty decent with talking to women, and will occasionally get lucky, yet they continue to feel hostile towards other guys – in particular dudes whom they assume are more handsome or socially dominant than they are, or guys who are getting more attention from girls.

I know that when you go out, the primary goal is to meet chicks, but developing new alliances with “Alpha” guys is going to improve your long-term game. So when you’re out at the nightclubs or bars, or in any type of social scenario — and you observe dudes who are sending out positive, confident and are sending out positive energy (and getting attention from women) — introduce yourself to them. Just start a friendly conversation with a dude who’s been getting attention from the ladies — say to him, “Hey bro, it looks like you’re doing pretty well with the ladies tonight. Nice work.” chanceThere’s a high probability that he will shake your hand, want to know you, and now you have a new Alpha Male in your circle (who could possibly be a perfect wingman).

As you grow your network of Alpha Male friends, there will be enormous benefits. These guys will invite you to bars, parties, etc. that you didn’t know about. They could know women they want to hook you up with. You’re also receiving “social proof” from these guys; women will automatically perceive you to be a high-value guy. When women see you hanging with these guys, it shows that you have high social value.

If you ordinarily hang out in the same one or two bars, with the same old friends of yours (non-Alpha Males who DON’T approach women), it’s time for you to “upgrade” and start hanging out with new people who are confident and super-social.

How To Be An Alpha Male, Tip #2: The next chunk of advice on how to become an Alpha Male is that you have to stop being “wishy-washy” and be DECISIVE when you are around women. Lay out a path for women to follow along with. I’m not trying to sound like a chauvenist here, but it’s the truth. Girls don’t actually want to have to figure out where to meet up on Friday night.

Basically, if a man is regularly deferring to her and asking HER to come up with the plans and ideas about what to do, she will actually feel a bit uncomfortable around him — because he does not display masculinity and leadership. He doesn’t seem capable of making decisions. You need to make evident to women, through your words and actions, that you’re the type of guy who can provide her with emotional security.

Whenever there is a decision to be made, it’s important for you to be able to step up and express how you think it should go. Seriously, even if it’s as inconsequential as figuring out where to go eat or have coffee. Of course, she might not be 100% in favor of your decision, but she will respect the fact that you have a definite opinion.

WEAK MOVE: “Um, if you’re not busy, maybe we could meet up…”

Alpha move: “Tell me your favorite romantic comedy, and I’ll pick it up at the video store — we’ll watch it Friday night at my place while I cook dinner for us.” Or, “You mentioned you love Italian food. I happen to know this great restaurant that’s a hidden gem, and I want to take you there. I can meet you Friday night at o’clock.”

How To Be An Alpha Male, Tip #3: Leave them wanting more. The super-successful Alpha Males – whether it’s a business mogul, or a Hollywood star – tend to be extremely active and busy people. They will not give you infinite amounts of their time. Your outlook should be the same when you are interacting with girls. You always want to be the one to bring an end to the conversation and be on your way — whether you’re talking with a woman at a club, or on the phone with a chick planning to see her again.

The run-of-the-mill guy will talk… and talk… until the girl finally says, “I need to go find my friend” or “it was cool chatting with you, but I have to be going…” Being an Alpha, you must ALWAYS have a goal in mind when you talk to a girl, and accomplish that objective before the conversation comes to an end. If you’re vibing with a chick you met at a bar, your goal could be to score her phone number. If you call her phone, the objective might be to establish when you’re going to meet up with her again. Ultimately, you’ve got to have a game plan, a strategy, and a way to execute it.

Don’t ever drag out the conversation to the point where she has to excuse herself. This implies to a woman that you are eager to monopolize her time and try to win her over. On the other hand, when you’re the one who has to “get going,” you’re demonstrating that you’re a busy guy with other stuff going on — and probably has other girls he needs to spend time with..

Those are just a few examples of how to be an Alpha Male. Remember: boring, ordinary guys are constantly asking permission from women. This results in a lot of “No’s,” and a lot of disappointment, frustration, and masturbation! Flip the script and start “spinning” your questions to make them more powerful, interesting and effective. This is one of the keys to learning How To Be An Alpha Male and constantly attracting women into your life.

Advice On How To Approach Women

I want to give you some brief tips on how to approach beautiful women and get phone numbers. More expressly, these tips are about how to get a girls phone number during the daytime — because every day you’ve got golden opportunities to meet women that you probably aren’t taking advantage of.

Just think about the last time you saw an attractive girl while you were out during the day…and you would have really liked to talk to her and get her info, but you just weren’t sure how to break the ice and make it happen?

See, most guys fail to go for it because they’re worried about what they’re going to talk about with her. Maybe this guy feels semi-comfortable with the idea of approaching women in bars, but when it comes to “day approaches,” he is simply too timid to make his move because he doesn’t know how to approach a woman.

Unfortunately, this is the case with a lot of men. Away from “social” locations like bars and parties, they just don’t feel capable of approaching women and starting conversations out of the blue.

Approaching Tips – How To Approach Girls

Here’s the solution to this quandary. I want you to stop worrying about having extended conversations with women in these situations. You simply need to get her phone number and email address, and her name, and then go on your way. Save the in-depth conversation for when you see her next time.

In fact, you’ll get a lot MORE phone numbers if you speed up this process. You can learn how to get a girls phone number in less than five minutes. And if you use this method, you’ll actually collect MORE phone numbers than you’d get by trying to talk to every girl you meet for 20 minutes and dragging out the conversation.

The more time you spend trying to chit-chat with a girl you just met, the greater the chance that she will disqualify you because you say something unwise, or you do or say something that cools off her interest in you.

The next thing to remember: always carry a pen and a small pad of paper in your pocket. This is a smart idea for a few reasons, and one of them is because it makes getting a girls number and other information much smoother.

Here’s how easy it can be. All you need to do is make an observation about her. Notice a detail of her appearance. Maybe she’s wearing a fashionable blouse or jeans, or carrying a cool-looking purse. Or, you might notice she’s got a cool new model of cell phone.

Now all you need to do it point out that detail and mention to her that you want to pick up something similar for a female friend of yours who has a birthday coming up. “Hey, I couldn’t help noticing your ______. My friend Jennifer has a birthday coming up and I need to pick out a gift, I think she’d love something like that…where did you get it?”

This detail that you notice can be any number of things. If you’re talking to a girl at the supermarket, you might notice an item she has in her shopping cart and say, “Pardon me, I’m hosting a dinner party for some friends tonight and I’m trying to figure out a dessert that I can whip up…something that’s not too difficult to make, and that everyone will enjoy. What would you recommend?”

If you want to know how to get a girls number at a bookstore, use the same principle: “Hey, is that book you’re reading any good? I’m trying to pick out a birthday gift for a friend — she’s a girl the same age as you — and I’m wondering if you’ve read anything really good lately?”

Let her answer. You only need to have a few minutes of conversation with her, and then say, “I appreciate your advice, I’m going to go pick that up for my friend. Hey, do you have an email address? I’ll let you know if my gift gets a good reaction.”

Nine times out of then, the girl will say “yes” and now you’re going to get her info. (Notice, you didn’t ask her if you can HAVE her email address. You asked “if she has email.” And every girl does, of course. The trick is, you act like she is now offering to give it you…and naturally, she will.)

So now you casually take out your pen and notepad and hand them to her. Act like this is a completely natural next step.

Then, as she jots down her email address, say to her, “write down your number, too. Oh, and I didn’t catch your name…”

As long as you behave like this is completely natural and normal, she’ll treat it as such.

It’s when you ask women PERMISSION for these things that you might run into resistance. So, don’t act permission when you want to get a girls number — or for that matter, when you ask her for anything at all. You should always prompt girls to go along with your flow. You can simply assume that she wants to give you her info, and she most likely will give it you.

After she gives it to you, wish her a good day and walk away. End the interaction on a pleasant note. You can call her the following day and take the next step.

Understanding how to approach women and get phone numbers is just one of the dozens of skills you’ll want to master. And as for how you’re going to schedule this “next meet” with her, I’ve got some very powerful strategies to ensure a successful outcome… www.macktactics.com

How to date girls

In order to get girls to feel sexually attracted to you, you need to demonstrate that you’re a high-value guy who isn’t sure if she’s up to your standards.

Women want what they can’t have. They love a guy who is a challenge. This is why you’ve got to show some “cocky confidence” and make her feel like she’s going to have to work to get a guy like you!

Get Girls Attracted To You, Tip #1

Use backhanded compliments. These are statements that sound like compliments initially, but then you slip in a “jab.” (These should sound like playful teases, not insults.) This technique is also known as Push/Pull.

“You’re the funnest girl I’ve met…in the last five minutes.”

(If she’s dressed sexy) “That’s a hot outfit…you remind me of a stripper I met in Vegas who stole my wallet. Did you used to dance at the Crazy Horse by any chance?”

“You’re funny, but I detect a bitchy high-maintenance vibe from you. I bet all your ex-boyfriends say you’re a handful.”

When she protests and playfully slaps you on the arm, you say “only kidding. Actually, not really…but it’s okay, you seem fun. Are you fun?”

Dating Women: Proven Tactics

How To Get Girls Attracted To You, Tip #2

Mention how you two shouldn’t date, or aren’t compatible. This technique always catches women by surprise…and makes them feel curious to know more about you, because you’re doing the exact opposite of what most guys do! Say things like…

“You I could never be boyfriend and girlfriend. We’re way too much alike.

We’d probably clash all the time, and then have crazy, wild make-up sex and wake up all the neighbors…and then we’d break up again the next day and you’d throw my clothes out in the front yard…it would be hot, but a whole lot of drama.”

“It’s too bad I swore off dating girls like you…” (change the subject and don’t explain)

Tell a story that mentions “your girlfriend.” (You can always surmount this later by mentioning how it was your ex-girlfriend; this story took place a long time ago.)

“I love women who are tall/short/blonde/Asian/etc. (something she is not)

“I’m all wrong for you. You’re probably used to dating boring, nice guys who kiss your butt and bring you flowers on the first date.”

“You’re such a nice girl — maybe you shouldn’t be hanging out with a guy like me. I could get you in all kinds of trouble.”

“You’re really sweet…but seriously, you should probably be talking to a nice boy like the one over there (point to some dorky-looking dude). I’m more like the guy your mom warned you about.”

Put her in the Friend Zone. This tactic is also very powerful because it reverses the normal roles. Usually it’s women who put guys in the Friend Zone, right? But you can do it to her!

“You’re like the little sister I never had.” (Or, “You remind me so much of one of my little sister’s friends.”)

“It’s good we met, I don’t know if we’re right for each other but we can be friends for sure.”

“I can tell you would make a great friend. You’re so nice.”
How To Get Girls, Tip #3

In order to get girls to feel sexually attracted to you, you need to demonstrate that you’re a high-value guy who isn’t sure if she’s up to yourstandards.

Women want what they can’t have. They love a guy who is a challenge. This is why you’ve got to show some “cocky confidence” and make her feel like she’s going to have to work to get a guy like you!

Get Girls Attracted To You, Tip #1

Use backhanded compliments. These are statements that sound like compliments initially, but then you slip in a “jab.” (These should sound like playful teases, not insults.) This technique is also known as Push/Pull.

“You’re the funnest girl I’ve met…in the last five minutes.”

(If she’s dressed sexy) “That’s a hot outfit…you remind me of a stripper I met in Vegas who stole my wallet. Did you used to dance at the Crazy Horse by any chance?”

“You’re funny, but I detect a bitchy high-maintenance vibe from you. I bet all your ex-boyfriends say you’re a handful.”

When she protests and playfully slaps you on the arm, you say “only kidding. Actually, not really…but it’s okay, you seem fun. Are you fun?”

How To Get Girls Attracted To You, Tip #2

Mention how you two shouldn’t date, or aren’t compatible. This technique always catches women by surprise…and makes them feel curious to know more about you, because you’re doing the exact opposite of what most guys do! Say things like…

“You I could never be boyfriend and girlfriend. We’re way too much alike. We’d probably clash all the time, and then have crazy, wild make-up sex and wake up all the neighbors…and then we’d break up again the next day and you’d throw my clothes out in the front yard…it would be hot, but a whole lot of drama.”

“It’s too bad I swore off dating girls like you…” (change the subject and don’t explain)

Tell a story that mentions “your girlfriend.” (You can always surmount this later by mentioning how it was your ex-girlfriend; this story took place a long time ago.)

“I love women who are tall/short/blonde/Asian/etc. (something she is not)

“I’m all wrong for you. You’re probably used to dating boring, nice guys who kiss your butt and bring you flowers on the first date.”

“You’re such a nice girl — maybe you shouldn’t be hanging out with a guy like me. I could get you in all kinds of trouble.”

“You’re really sweet…but seriously, you should probably be talking to a nice boy like the one over there (point to some dorky-looking dude). I’m more like the guy your mom warned you about.”

Put her in the Friend Zone. This tactic is also very powerful because it reverses the normal roles. Usually it’s women who put guys in the Friend Zone, right? But you can do it to her!

“You’re like the little sister I never had.” (Or, “You remind me so much of one of my little sister’s friends.”)

“It’s good we met, I don’t know if we’re right for each other but we can be friends for sure.”

“I can tell you would make a great friend. You’re so nice.”

How To Get Girls, Tip #3

Blame All Flirtations On Her. This is another fun way to “turn the tables” and show confidence. Play around with her and get her to start feeling some attraction, and then “blame” her for what’s happening:

“Here I am trying to have a serious conversation with you, and you keep giving me flirty looks. Cut it out, would you? It’s distracting.”

“If you keep looking at me that way, I’m going to have to turn on the charm and seduce you.”

“If you don’t stop being so cute, you’re going to force me to start hitting on you.”

“I hope your boyfriend isn’t around, because if you keep smiling at me that way I’m going to be forced to start flirting with you.”

(Notice, you’re not telling her you are hitting on her/flirting with you right now. You’re saying that it might happen soon, and it’s going to be “her fault.”)

“I really ought to get home because I have work tomorrow, but if you keep flirting me like this you’re going to force me to have another drink with you.”

“You’re making me think such naughty thoughts. Do you have voodoo powers or something? Stop it, I’m trying to concentrate on what you’re saying.”

“You are totally trying to seduce me right now. Stop looking at me that way. I promised myself I’d be celibate for the next 30 days and you’re messing everything up.”

“I’m don’t know why, but you keep making me think about us going to the mall and picking out a bunch of sexy lingerie for you at Victoria’s Secret. Cut it out, OK? I don’t want to be thinking about that stuff right now.”

“I came out tonight to have a couple of beers and chill, and then you come along and force me to start flirting with you. It;s all your fault for wearing that dress.”

How To Get A Girl, Tip #4

Employ her/fire her: “I like you. I’m hiring you as my personal assistant.” Or, “I’ve always thought that my life would make a great book. I’m hiring you as my personal biographer. Start taking notes.” (If she knows how to build websites, make her your website developer. If photography is one of her hobbies, she’s now your personal photographer. Or your chef. Or personal trainer…)

Then, when she does something dorky or gives a lame answer to one of your questions, you “fire” her: “That’s it — you’re fired. Tell the cute blonde over there she can submit her resume.” Blame All Flirtations On Her. This is another fun way to “turn the tables” and show confidence. Play around with her and get her to start feeling some attraction, and then “blame” her for what’s happening:

“Here I am trying to have a serious conversation with you, and you keep giving me flirty looks. Cut it out, would you? It’s distracting.”

“If you keep looking at me that way, I’m going to have to turn on the charm and seduce you.”

“If you don’t stop being so cute, you’re going to force me to start hitting on you.”

“I hope your boyfriend isn’t around, because if you keep smiling at me that way I’m going to be forced to start flirting with you.”

(Notice, you’re not telling her you are hitting on her/flirting with you right now. You’re saying that it might happen soon, and it’s going to be “her fault.”)

“I really ought to get home because I have work tomorrow, but if you keep flirting me like this you’re going to force me to have another drink with you.”

“You’re making me think such naughty thoughts. Do you have voodoo powers or something? Stop it, I’m trying to concentrate on what you’re saying.”

“You are totally trying to seduce me right now. Stop looking at me that way. I promised myself I’d be celibate for the next 30 days and you’re messing everything up.”

“I’m don’t know why, but you keep making me think about us going to the mall and picking out a bunch of sexy lingerie for you at Victoria’s Secret. Cut it out, OK? I don’t want to be thinking about that stuff right now.”

“I came out tonight to have a couple of beers and chill, and then you come along and force me to start flirting with you. It;s all your fault for wearing that dress.”
How To Get A Girl, Tip #4

Employ her/fire her: “I like you. I’m hiring you as my personal assistant.” Or, “I’ve always thought that my life would make a great book. I’m hiring you as my personal biographer. Start taking notes.” (If she knows how to build websites, make her your website developer. If photography is one of her hobbies, she’s now your personal photographer. Or your chef. Or personal trainer…)

Then, when she does something dorky or gives a lame answer to one of your questions, you “fire” her: “That’s it — you’re fired. Tell the cute blonde over there she can submit her resume.” Click here for more

Proven Dating Tactics To Use Girls

Since I’m the guy who wrote the notorious book Mack Tactics, and I live in Sin City, a lot of guys ask me for tips on getting laid in Vegas.

No matter what, if you’re on a mission to get laid in Vegas, the name of the game is HAVING game. Here are some quick tips to get you laid by hot women in Vegas:

#1 Take “Batting Practice” everywhere you go. This means you don’t wait until nightfall (or after you’ve started drinking) to start talking to girls. And you don’t only try to talk to the hot ones that you want to score with. Batting Practice means that no matter where you are, you’re having short, positive conversations with new women. This keeps your game sharp, and allows you to build all sorts of connections.

Tips on How To date Women Effectively

When you head out to the clubs later on in the evening, you always want to be accompanied by a few girls.

It doesn’t matter if they’re aren’t great looking.

Having female companionship boosts your energy level and makes other women more curious to know you.

During the day, meet tourist chicks and invite them to roll with you later on. If you seem like a guy who knows the cool spots in Vegas, they’ll want to come along for the ride.

If you don’t want to hook up with any of them later on, you can use them as female “wingmen” to help you attract the girls you do want.

#2 Things move fast in Vegas and the women have short attention spans. Don’t try to box girls in for a half-hour and talk about deep subjects.

Keep it light and fun, and use Mack Tactics to get them in a spontaneous mindset where they start thinking “hey, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. I’m going to cut loose tonight.” Take them to another spot, or get their phone number and connect with them later.

#3 Party with her in multiple spots in one evening. Why? Because most girls tell themselves it’s wrong for them to sleep with a guy they just met that night. But it won’t FEEL like she just met you if you bring her to several places in the course of a night.

You could meet her at Spot A (a club), take her and her friends to Spot B (a different club), and then bring them Spot C (a light-night bar).

This tactic, coupled with the fact that Vegas is DESIGNED to make you lose track of time, will make a girl feel like she has “known” you for longer than she actually has. This makes it easier to get laid later on.

You don’t need to hit a slot machine jackpot to win big in Vegas. This is the land of hot, hard-partying women where ANYTHING can happen — so use the right Mack Tactics and get laid in Las Vegas! Click here for more