Picture the following scenario:
You go out on a date with a girl, and the two of you are having a good time. Everything seems to be going OK. But while you're on the date, you're wondering how this evening is going to end.
When you walk her to her car... or when you drop her off at her house...are you going to try to kiss her?
In most cases, the guy is afraid to try. So the night will end with a handshake, or a hug, or you will kiss her on the cheek -- but it feels sort of awkward for both of you.
Or what about this scenario? You take a girl to the movies, and when you sit down, you want to put your arm around her... or snuggle up close to her...but you don't want her to feel weird or uncomfortable. So for the next two hours, you don't touch her... and the whole time, you are wishing that you could be.
Look, the easiest way to get past these barriers is to simply lay a "foundation" of subtle body contact.
Every time you use body language flirting the right way, it's a slow, natural progression -- and remember, you have to initiate it.
The way to prep her for holding hands...kissing her...and eventually sleeping with her...is to establish subtle physical contact, and use these body language flirting tactics, early on. You want to make her feel comfortable with the idea of touching you, and you touching her. In other words, you want to "warm her up!"
Now how do you accomplish this, exactly? Here are few body language flirting tips...
Body Language Flirting Tip #1: When one of you says something funny and you both start launghing, give her a high-five. Don't "slap" her hand the way you would do it with one of your pals. Put your hand up, and when she puts up hers, clasp it gently in your hand and intertwine your fingers with hers. Hold it for a couple of seconds before letting her hand go.
It should feel totally natural -- consciously, she shouldn't even notice that you just made physical contact.
Or, when you're talking to her and making eye contact, and you're saying something "deep," reach over and put your hand on top of her hand of forearm for a second or two -- as if to emphasize what you are saying. Just a light touch. Then, withdraw your hand.
Body Language Flirting Tip #2: If you're sitting down with her on a couch, instead of touching her hand,you can touch her knee for a moment. Maintain eye contact with her. She won't consciously think about you lightly touching her knee, because she is busy listening to what you are saying...but it will register with her.
Body Language Flirting Tip #3: Or, when you are holding the door open for her -- guiding her into the passenger seat in your car, or through the door to the restaurant or bar -- simply place your hand on the small of her back (gently) and subtly guide her through the door.
Her brain will pick up this signal: that you're a strong, masculine presence who is there to provide safety and security. In other words, she senses that she is with a MAN. You're not a nervous, harmless "nice guy" who avoids physical contact.
As the conversation keeps flowing, you can increase the frequency and length of your "touches". Your flirting body language will grow more intimate and powerful.
A little later, you might reach and gently brush the hair out of her eyes...and this won't feel unnatural to her. She will welcome your touch.
And it won't feel unnatural for you to lean in very close and whisper in her ear when you have something "private" to tell her. This can really give a girl goose bumps... in a good way;)
These steps are laying the groundwork for you to kiss her. After I've done all the steps above, I like to give her a soft kiss on the cheek after I've just said something in her ear.
Then, I go back to our normal conversation. I don't make a "big deal" out of that kiss. It all feels like a comfortable, natural progression.
Essentially, this is how you use body language flirting to attract women. Ultimately, you're going to make her feel comfortable being with you in every sense...but only if you lay this foundation.
Of course, this is just one of the components of a smooth seduction. The other big tactic you'll need to use is Strategic Conversation. This means knowing exactly what to say, which questions to ask, and how to guide the conversation down the right path. And we've got a free book for you that is going to show you exactly how it's done...
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